Picture this:

Things are going well. You’ve got back on the wagon and met a guy who is cool and sweet and funny. After a couple of dates, you’ve taken the plunge and invited him around for drinks. Nice move, girlfriend. Dating at home is a lot more intimate and is a sign that both parties are interested in the long-term. There are a couple of things to figure out though. The main issue? Making a positive first impression. A person’s home says a lot about their personality, which is why it has to sing from the same hymn sheet. Not worry, ladies, because I’ve got you covered on this one.

Tip #1: Be Clean, But Not Hospital Clean

First and foremost, the house can’t be a mess. As much as women think guys are untidy, they are surprisingly hygienic when the moment arises. One thing is for sure – they aren’t attracted to piles of dirty dishes by the sink, nor do they want a hoarder. So throwing out the stuff that is unnecessary is the initial protocol. Canning Vale Storage Units can help, or you can Google storage solutions nearest to you and pick one. But, you shouldn’t go overboard. A little bit of clutter is cute. What isn’t endearing is a sterile home that feels like being in the ER.

Tip #2: Set The Scene

Remember that this is a romantic liaison and that the house should reflect the fact. Nothing has to happen, but it’s always a good move to adjust the lighting and light candles to create a mood. Otherwise, there will be no atmosphere and the date will tank. Do you have spotlights? If the answer is yes, you should dim them to a sexy light instead of an industrial, iris-burning glare. Anyone who doesn’t have dimmers can use lamps or ambient lighting to the same effect. Next, focus on the smell. A new plug-in air freshener should have the place smelling rosy in no time.

Tip #3: Showcase Your Personality

There is nothing worse than being on a date and sitting in complete silence. In a bar or restaurant, this is a common occurrence because you have to focus on each other. At home, you can use your house as a conversation starter. The trick is to display pictures and knick-knacks that are interesting and have a story. For instance, move the photos of the trip to India into view. The moment he spots it he won’t be able to resist. Not only does it boost conversation, but it makes you seem worldly and adventurous.

Tip #4: Consider Pets

You may be an animal person yet the guy could have an allergy. Sure, this may not matter when you choose the pooch over him, but it’s still nice to be considerate! Hopefully, you’ve spoken about pets before and you know his stance. If you haven’t, ask him and say that you need to know about any allergies. Let the dog roam around but don’t let it get in the way (if you know what I mean!).

 How do you think your home will fair on the impression scale? Tell us in the comments!